works like I had expected. no frills. join and get to the point. they do a good job of not getting in your way with a bunch of personality tests and required questions. because they have no mobile app I think 4 stars is fair.
Review by Zavvie2 weeks ago
Tons of dating sites. Been on a few. Takes a lot of effort to find someone decent that I am really attracted to. Things really turned around for me once I verified my video with the secretbenefits support peeps. Getting more men chatting me than ever before. Really happy with this site!
Review by Downing2 weeks ago
I gave this site a try a couple years ago. Ended up getting serious with someone until recently.
Single again and happy they kept my profile. Jumped back on the horse and blown away by how many more ladies are on the site since I last looked.
Got a bunch of favorites and having a great time chatting a few right now. Got a hot date lined up this weekend at a new restaurant nearby. Pumped about the prospects here. Gotta be one of the best dating sites I've tried.
Review by RobertGrimes4 weeks ago
Found a boyfriend last year from secretbenefits.com. Hid my profile. We broke up a few months ago and was happy to see my profile could still be reactivated. About a month in, found a new really great man. He asked me recently to be exclusive with him. Happy he did. Got me a hot new boyfriend!
Review by Chellet1 month ago
My roomie thought she would be funny I guess and started my profile on secretbenefits.com without me knowing. I was kind mad at her at first but I couldn't help my curiousity when I started getting favorited and messages from pretty sexy guys. Started chatting a guy, Charles, that lives a couple miles from me. He took me out last night and the sparks were flying! Feel like I'm floating this morning. Guess I need to thank my friend now!
Review by Ebuka1 month ago
Props to SB for putting out a legit dating platform for older guys like me to meet younger hotties. Having the time of my life especially after being in a dead end relationship for the past 11 years. Women I've dated off here have been knocking my socks off.
Review by Serzad Nangla1 month ago
I signed a few months ago. I didn't buy the credits at first as I wanted to see what it was all about. After taking the plunge, I bought some credits and starting chatting. TIP! go for the verified girls first if not you van waste time. It took about 8 conversations and had a real meeting with a girl. She was as per her pics, we got on well and will see her again today. A lot of the girls see I as a way of making cash for uni or just funding a life style. Others are actually looking for dates. Try it, be polite, hold intelligent conversations and you will meet girls .Dont fall in love with them though!!
Review by Disbelief Kontotheodorou1 month ago
Seems there are some varying opinions. My experience has been good. It's easy to meet guys. When I meet someone I stop using the site so I haven't been on a few months but I vouch.
Review by Ladywolfe Strbo1 month ago
SB delivers as I had hoped for. Im dating a man from France that travels a bunch between NYC and Paris. He asks me to travel evertime he gets to the US but Im finishing my degree so I only get to go maybe once a month. He is really kind and very interesting to be with. SB is very straightforward and easy to use. Recommend.
Review by Kevap1 month ago
Refugee from seeking.com. Was getting a bit too rough on that website. Digging this one. Only been on for a couple weeks and have several interesting men messaging me. Went out this past weekend with a really funny guy. Super nice to me. Telling my friends to try it out. Cant really go wrong when its free...
Review by Yaketta Haptar1 month ago
I have been on this site for 2months and have gotten 2 admirers but the 1st one wanted a threesome and 2nd.one ,we talked back and forth for 2days and he wanted a topless picture of my boobs and i haven't heard from him since. But other than that. Nothing! Haven't had any real dates
Review by Bafford Caquelin1 month ago
I’ve been dating on secretbenefits.com for at least a year now. Don’t really get what some of the other reviews are talking about in reference to fake profiles. From my experience, that’s just not true. Yes, there have been men I’ve dated from SB that didn’t much look like their photos, but they were real...also there are some I’ve gone out with that had verified profiles. Wish more men would do that. I get that some may not have that much game, but to say that all the profiles are fake is highly ridiculous ...I’m real and have dated many real men. Maybe you guys that can’t score need to improve your profile and approach.
Review by MarGeo Perzow1 month ago
Custmer service is horrible. Guidlines that are not consistent. Women are flaky and immature.
Certain that bots are used..I am contesting CC charge. Use ur $$ and time otherwise.
Review by Shydae1 month ago
Customer service was very nice in contacting me, really couldn't have done a better job, in my opinion. Although I had some issues at first I'm ready to give them another go!
Review by Rikit1 month ago
Joined last week. First date last night. Went well. Going out again tomorrow. Expectations have been met so far. All continues to plan, I’ll line up a few women to date regularly and I won’t need to use the site much longer, hahaha.
Review by Mriyam1 month ago
Sent messages to 9 woman, 1 replied with a photo with no response yet. I'm very clear what I'm looking for and it is my first day.
Review by Sherzod1 month ago
Secretbenefits attracts some higher caliber men. I know what I’m looking for in a man so easy to zero in here. They could use a few more filters to get more specific or maybe a search function to find keywords in guys profiles but overall it’s been easy to find good matches for me. Love that it’s free for me to use so please don’t change that, haha!
Review by Grumpygranne Nyandemo1 month ago
What can I say? I’ve dated some hot dudes, generous guys, stiffboards, and a few real a-holes. Basically, what u should expect anywhere. Not gonna fault this site for the basket of apples I have choosen to date. The site itself is cool with me. It’s fast, chat works well, and enough dudes to choose from. Just use your best judgment with who u meet, and always have the first date in a public place.
Review by Dearlean Trecordi1 month ago
I joined a few weeks ago and at first it was really interesting but it did force me to verify while I was in the middle of an allergic reaction so I hate my video. There are not many verified guys, I have been stood up twice and no one really replies to messages.
Review by Chriscris Cumens1 month ago
This is a site where the women outnumber the men. As a man you will get the attention of would be Sugar Babies, my email inbox is constantly filled with requests from prospective dates. The dates are all within 20 miles of my residence from women in their 20s,30s, and even 40s. You'll have to be honest with your intentions, if it is sex you want, you'll have to make sure it is understood beforehand with your date. Otherwise it is only for casual dating ie. movies,lunch,dinner and nothing more. Your date might request a retainer for services, say 200.00 to 300.00 dollars a month in exchange for ?????. Try this site at your risk.
Review by Golanda1 month ago
Secret Benefits gets a passing grade from me. I've been on the site for almost a year and have no complaints. Finding a good guy to take me out has been pretty easy most the time. Been good for casual dating. Most guys have been gentlemen. Only kinda bummer part is they have no app. Guess the upside is I don't have an embarrassing dating app icon on my phone and I'm not getting a bunch of notifications pinging me all day...not exactly the kinda site site I want my parents to know I'm on.
Review by Baldean1 month ago
Had to be one of the best customer service interactions I’ve had in a long time. Sara was very courteous and professional. She really took the time with me and made sure I was all good. Very impressed. It was clear to me they really care. Thank you!!
Review by Sreekantha1 month ago
This is an update to my prior post regarding Secret Benefits. In my initial review I stated that customer service had not responded to my complaints. Well only after my negative reviews went up customer service from the site did contact me and were very gracious and professional. They refunded my initial $59.00 and provided me with an additional free 100 credits. However since my negative review customer services has repeatedly harassed me to update/change this review from a negative review to a positive review. After I refused to update my review my profile pic on the site kept mysteriously disappearing leaving the few real ladies on the site with either nothing to see when they visited my profile or a blurred silhouette (this happened at least 5 times even though I would re-upload my pic each time) . Their final claim was to say that the use of the term "scam" was defamatory and forced a different review service to remove the review. I have updated the review on that review site to no longer state that Secret Benefits is a "scam" but detail my experience there. However please read the review below to see what a scam Secret Benefits is since SITEJABBER is apparently a bit tougher and more interested in the truth than the other review site.
Review by Nisera Taubin1 month ago
I joined SB earlier this year and really enjoyed the platform, it wasn’t until a couple of months later that I realized my account had been reduced to limited access (I couldn’t send or receive messages, not viewable in search results). Thoroughly confused by this, I reached out to customer service and they could not provide me with any information as to why they limited my access. So I did not know if it was something that was fixable on my end. After spending a week trying to resolve the issue, with NO effort on the customer support side, I decided to delete my account. Fast forward a couple months later and I tried to create a new account, hoping that I wouldn’t experience any issues. After a day, my account was again dropped to limited access without communication. It wasn’t until I reached out to customer support that I found out. They failed to provide me with any details on how I could resolve this issue. I thoroughly read through all of the terms both times this occurred and could not understand what I had breach as I had followed ALL proper instructions and even had some great experiences from the site. I have been very disappointed in the lack of communication that customer support has provided and feel as if there is no effort being made to help a consumer resolve a serious issue, being that if I can’t send or receive messages, there is really no point of me being on the platform. I have been sugar dating for several years now and have tried various different websites, this is the first I have come across to have any issues of this nature. It is very unfortunate, I hope that they change their policies so they can help provide more insight into situations similar to mine. As a consumer, I appreciate transparency, this is something that I have found extremely lacks with this website. Knowing that I am not the only one who has come across this, I would highly recommend going to a competing site.
Review by Monikaa Birea1 month ago
I've been pleasantly surprised by the quantity and quality of the men on the site. I've been out with a few real gentleman who have really shown me a different part of the city. Being new here that really helps and gives me hope.
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