Having tried a few of these cheating sites id say this one is better than a lot but its not quite top dog (that award still goes to NoStringsAffair – champion!)
Review by Zarred1 month ago
Don't expect much, you're not getting much. Ever since this site was outed some years ago Its mostly software action in the form of incoming messages they want you to pay to read. Bots and cupids along with fake profiles get you to upgrade. Its another scam that just takes your financial info. Off shore credit processors, ID theft,
Sweetheart scams, assault, robbery is all possible. Back in the 1990s this was a hookup site, some ppl still believe it is lol.
Review by Deezy2 months ago
Complete scam site
Don't waste your money
Absolute rubbish criminal scam site
Should be banned
Review by Virals Comotto2 months ago
2 MUCH EXPENSIVE AND 2 MANY FAKE PROFILES,I WAS SUBSCRIBE AND I NEVER HAVE A REPLY
Review by Djouama3 months ago
1 star review. Real woman here and found out only low quality men are on the sites. Either dorks can not get dates in real life (no women want them), or cheap and unattractive men (old, dont know how to please a woman...). I left the sites because those men are waste of my time. Most just want free sex, free oral, ... so they go to the sites to find women instead of paying escort girls. The men here dont have a brain to understand Law Of Omerta. If they want discreet relationship, at least they have to treat the women nice so she will keep the silence. Playing not nice to her? They hold the proof to hand to your wife if they want.
Now I understand why other women dont bother to waste their time here if all you can get is low quality losers.
Review by Spensleys Slatee3 months ago
Two years ago was great. Now really not so good. Low numbers of nearby ladies and those who are are low calibre. In top of this, lots of fake profiles, put up by people who are trying to stitch you up.
This means that you never quite know if you are wasting your money contacting ladies and whether they are trying to fleece you.
It's a real shame because a couple of years ago it was great. I met some lovely ladies and had fun times.
I won't bother now
Review by Donl Destadio3 months ago
If you’re looking to pay for sex, you’ll find a bunch of that here. It seems more like baiting, girls will respond a few times and then disappear. You have to pay for membership and after that you pay to message. Don’t waste your money.
Review by Lony3 months ago
1. Ashley Madison was okay 10 yrs ago.. now! A bunch of losers. Fake profiles. For women. and cheap men! Look people buy into these dating sites. They don't work!!. Most have borderline personality disorders. The men. They are rude to women. As hell.. look like men either coming out of a funny farm. Or jail! .. let's face it, it's a business, we as humans are the dumb ones thinking we are gonna find fabulous people. When a guy sleep with you expect him to ghost you. And or orbit you. I would not meet half of them in a dark alley! Now it's a bunch of limp men. Looking for a young girl.. not a woman.. what do that tell you? Women do not have it no better.. if your cheating u need to get caught. Second guys ghost.. orbiting as well. They cuss u out if rejected. I had a lawyer I never dated did not give him no info . I called him .. this man stalked me I had to take him to court.. the second one. Scared me to death. I had to move and get a restraining order!. Its pathetic.
Review by Mbm Taleporos3 months ago
This site is full of fake profiles, you will only get fake computer generated invitations to chat, each will take a chunk of your money. This site is complete scam and should be investigated by a federal agency.
EXAMPLES OF FAKE ANSWERS:
- dmvs_honey could be the answer to your fantasies. You should send her a message and start flirting.
- Goodkitty2016 is looking for men like you. Be the first to catch her attention by sending her a nice compliment.
- ashhgee2019 is looking for men like you. Be the first to catch her attention by sending her a nice compliment.
- natashabird is looking for a spark. Make the first move and tell her why you’re here.
- What if things get really heated with Blondielove? Ask her what she’s looking for and see where it takes you.
- Ellen4016 could be the answer to your fantasies. You should send her a message and start flirting.
- 23Jellyfish is looking for men like you. Be the first to catch her attention by sending her a nice compliment.
- What if things get really heated with saramic78? Ask her what she’s looking for and see where it takes you.
- Goldenkitty08 has some hidden desires. Reach out to her and see if you can satisfy them.
- Lexxxxyyy has indicated she is interested in someone just like you. You should send her a custom message to connect.
- charitylynne73 has indicated she is interested in someone just like you. You should send her a custom message to connect.
- Discreet_2751 could be the answer to your fantasies. You should send her a message and start flirting.
Review by TinaR Witmore3 months ago
Problem #1.... is only ONE in TEN profiles are CURRENT women looking for love or encounters..What about the other 9?..They are OLD profiles that have either deleted their account long ago-- Or let their account lapse and Ashley keeps them on there to make their database look full..
Problem #2.. When you DO contact a woman that is REAL and has an active profile, she probably wont answer you back right away....In fact, My numbers are very similiar to another reviewers: its just like one of the other reviewers said " I sent out close to 175 messages in a 2-3 month time frame, and only 6-7 Replied back and NONE wanted to meet up in person"..Most wanted to just chat and find out what I did for a living first, to see what my income profile was". In fact ,2-3 of the girls that replied back wanted "money for the VERY first date!!".Working girls I call them ..Or Ladies of the evening..Stupid..I'm KNOW where to look for THAT if thats what I need.And I dont want that at this stage in my life....Anyway, Ashley is a waste of $250, for me..Maybe others have met their perfect "someone" but for me - was a waste of time and money...
Review by Emergency Beikova3 months ago
I just tried Ashley Madison after not using it for several years. I had some luck several years ago. The site is not what it used to be. The changes in the interface are horrible. 1. You can't tell if the profiles you are looking at are someone currently using the system or someone who has not visited for months. 2. No idea how many credits I have,
Also, looks like many fake profiles and the system automatically send messages to your inbox trying to prompt you to communicate with them. I purchased some credits, sent messages to several "real" appearing profiles and only received on response which was someone polite enough to say "not interested".
Stay away, very few real profiles and no tools to help you figure out if someone is for real.
Review by Cgr Udrovskis3 months ago
Site is filled with shills pushing members to access other third party pay sites. My first day I had message exchanges with four ladies who turned out to be shills.
When I contacted AM, all I received was a scripted copy/paste response clearly removing any responsibility they may have with regard to the protection of their legitimate subscribers.
AM is not any better then the shills they allow to propagate their site.
Money thrown away!
Review by Yanaira3 months ago
Save your money its a f**kng waste, none of these profiles are real, the only real ones wants sugar daddys and none of them are even worth the expense. Dont do it, just go to the bar and pick someone up. Its cheaper than this thats for sure.
Review by Mateya Suliteanu4 months ago
Total ripoff! Fake profiles, no connections after spending $300. Don't use it.
Review by Carlysle4 months ago
AM is an cesspool that does from time to time deliver results.
This is an honest rating from someone with a fair amount of experience on the site. To start with, THE GOOD: I have met many women off of the site and have had intimate realtions with several. However, a few caveats to explain. I am considered handsome and attractive, so my pictures always get some amount of attention, when they're viewed. That more than likely helps me in actually meeting women.
Unfortunately, that's about the only good.
Now THE BAD: When you first sign up as a male and BEFORE purchasing any credits, you will receive a plethora of messages that so and so has sent you a message. These are COMPLETELY FAKE messages. Once you actually buy credits, you'll find out that those messages weren't real and were only meant to entice you to buy credits. Suffice it to say, in general, you will NEVER receive random messages from woman "perusing" your profile. The women don't do that, they don't have to.
The male to female ratio is so skewed in their favor, they merely sit back and wait for the flood of messages that inevitably come in. They can then pick and choose whom they want to communicate with.
This is where my point made under "the good" comes in. I have had successful relationships because my pictures are considered attractive. So I effectively get chosen out of the bunch. So the point here is this, don't make the mistake of thinking,"wow what a great site!"
Onto more bad. Once you've purchased credits you'll find that for about the first week or so you'll get hit with messages from everywhere. Again random and unsolicited. Usually from attractive, young 20 somethings. These are FAKE messages as well. Do NOT bite. These are an enticement to get you to spend those newly purchased credits.
Once that initial week passes you then get to the desert that is really the real AM.
All the fake messages will dry up and you'll find that it takes an intense amount of effort to get anyone's attention. You will have to send out your profile key to numerous, random strangers in hope of any response at all. That is intensely scary, as you have no idea who's viewing them! It could be someone you know and that obviously could leak it's way back to your significant other.
To summarize then. You can obtain results off of the site. However, you have to able to navigate the deception and get past all of the noise. You're then on your own amongst tens of thousands of other men competing for what is probably a few hundred REAL and available women in your area.
Overall, it can be done but realize results are tenous and hard to come by. It will require wisdom, tenaciousness and aggression on your part. If you can successfully navigate all that, you may just find a prize! Hope this helps someone. GOOD LUCK!
Review by Milosavljevic Giunta4 months ago
For all the bad press this site is still half decent. Def in my top 3 sites for shagging married birds along with nostringsaffair and tinder.
Review by Quds4 months ago
Oh yes! Liking AM a lot!
After trying a whole lotta 'top' sites for affairs at first ive now managed to find two good ones in under a week. Between this one and nostringsaffair.com things are really looking up for me and my under used wedding tackle lol! Rob - Houson, Texas
Review by Eyðun4 months ago
Do not waste your money on this website! From default settings that waste your credits to fake 'winks' and profiles, it's really just scam money grab website. This site is NOT legitimate like AFF
Review by Lynleigh4 months ago
There are still real women on AM!
I'm 11-months into a relationship with my girlfriend that I found through AM. In past reviews I said that I made contact with three very real women and started a relationship with my girlfriend. We're still very happy.
My girlfriend expressed interest in me seeking other women. (It's a long story). So I would periodically look for new women on AM, in my area, in my age range of 50 and above. I generally keep my Profile hidden. Last week I saw a woman that peaked my interest, so I Shared my Profile (I'm 71, but look younger), asked if she would take a minute to look at my Profile.
After two or three days of back and forth, we met for drinks after work. We were both eager for the next step, but I ultimately decided not to go forward, even with my GF's approval. The couple of days of courting were just too hectic. Keeping a GF and wife is hectic enough, but adding another GF just was too stressful for me. The new GF was very understanding and we left the door open, in case situations change.
Oh, BTW, this latest prospect had no information in her top level profile, other than age, race, weight and height. She very well could have been a cyber-Profile. I sent her my Private Profile first and then asked for hers, after she looked my Profile. NO Penis-PIX. She complained, as have other women, that they feel insulted and demeaned when a man leads with that. Yes, on AM, that's where they want to get to, but they want to be treated with some respect. Wait until the sexting starts and then the pictures will get more and more explicit.
I'm 71-years old and I'm having success with women in the 50 and above range. My GF is 64. The woman from last week is 54.
I DO keep myself in shape. My pictures are just waist-up of me in a Polo shirt. Nothing fancy, but an actual recent picture of me.
You first Message is critical. You either make it to first base, or you're out of the game. My first Message usually starts out saying that I understand their need to limit the information in their top-level Profile, lest a friend of their significant other see them and report them. I ALWAYS say that I'll respect them and will always protect their confidentiality. (I contact only women that are in relationships that they want to maintain).
Once you've seen their pictures, tell them how attractive they are and how excited that you'd be to meet them. These women want to be desired again, so start expressing it as soon as yo see them and you're attracted. If you don't find them attractive, then bow out gracefully early.
Yes, the ratio is against men, probably 20 or 30 to 1, but if you respect them, offer to protect them and are honest about yourself, you can communicate with real women that want to have sex back in their lives. Remember, your first Message is make or break. Second, I didn't talk about this much, but your Profile needs to be honest, talk about mutual respect, the need to be discreet and how you will protect them and their existing relationship.
Review by Sammyleigh Klumbyte4 months ago
Never had a problem. Site ain't perfect but there are real women on I have met a few in the past. But don't be silly and use your common sense and you should be fine! If you ain't lucky try CasualSexOnly. It can be a hit and miss sometimes but is always worth checking out.
Review by Kmom DeFlorville4 months ago
First signed up to AM many years ago and paid to get credits, over £100. Back then it was 5 credits per message for guys to initiate contact. Used up all my credits, few chats which turned out to be scammers or bots and that was it.
Added more credit later to try my luck again and same thing happened. After spending over £200 on this site, I only chatted to 1 real person and that didn’t end up going anywhere. Too many fake profiles to waste your money on.
AM then changed the message policy from 5 credits per message to 8 credits per message. The site was bad value before, it’s even worst now. Just stick to Tinder, it’s free.
Review by Inweezy Siekierski4 months ago
Save your money. 90% of all profiles are outdated, or scams.
No real women.
Review by Ninder4 months ago
Horrible. If you’re a guy you get screwed and not by any women from the site, but by the site itself. They have NO desire to help you, just take your money. The women have so many more free options on the site, but that’s not surprising given the ratio. I could rant, but read some of the other reviews, they’re spot on. AM is in it for the $$, nothing more. Their screening sucks, their fees are ridiculous and most profiles are fake.
Review by Janalyn4 months ago
There are no women on there.
Review by Fadhlina Beiferman4 months ago
Had interaction with 5 "profiles" in recent weeks - all have been scams where the "woman" I was communicating with evolved into a requirement to register credit card on a web site for prove of my age, then a requirement to send sums between $300-1000 to a name in the Philipines via WU or MG both of which declined to process the transaction except on one occasion. That time a date was arranged but the woman never arrived and communication immediately stopped. these are clear violations of AM stated policies.